I really get off on sending money that we can spare to younger, hotter guys and being degraded for my pains.
(We had this conversation at the start of the pandemic and playing online feels safer.) One of things I’ve been able to explore in the last year is FinDom. My husband has a couple of fuckbuddies that he sees while I do most of my playing online. Sex was the thing we fought about most, and our relationship improved when we took that conflict off the table. We decided to stay together and I’m glad we did. Thanks in part to reading your column for many years, we were able to have a calm conversation about whether we wanted to remain together in a companionate marriage or split up. I very much love my husband but two years ago we acknowledged that our desire for each other sexually just wasn’t there anymore.
